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How a grandparent far away can read to a grandchild

Use a live video call when you can both be there, and a recording for the nights you can't. Most families will want both.

A clay-style illustration of a boy waving to his grandmother on a video call

Four ways to do it

Video callHold a book up on FaceTime or WhatsApp. It's free and live, but you need a time that suits both homes.
CaribuA video call with a shared book on screen. It's live too, and is a paid subscription.
Recordable storybookThe grandparent reads each page into a printed book, such as Hallmark's, then posts it. About $35 at one Hallmark retailer.
TeddyReadsA new book starring your child, read in a voice recorded once, for about a minute. First e-book free. We make this one.

What research says about calls and recordings

In a small study, children aged 22 to 25 months learned new words from live video chat but not from pre-recorded video. So a recording doesn't replace a call, especially for a very young child.

A recording's value is simpler: it's there when the grandparent can't be. We know of no good research on bedtime stories in a familiar recorded voice.

Making it a habit

  • Keep to a regular time. A weekly slot is easier to keep than a nightly one.
  • Have the same book in both homes. Your child can turn the pages while Grandma reads.
  • Keep calls short. One story and a chat is plenty.
  • Read in the language you share. It may be the one your child hears least.

How it works with TeddyReads

TeddyReads began because its founder wanted his niece and nephew, who live far away, to see themselves inside a story. Make the book, then have Grandma sign in to your account from any phone or computer and read aloud for about a minute. The whole book plays in her voice, and so can every book you make afterward.

Questions families ask

Is a video call or a recording better for a toddler?

For learning, the evidence favors live calls, since toddlers in one study learned new words from live video chat but not from recordings. A recording helps when a live call isn't possible.

Does the grandparent need to be good with technology?

No. To record for TeddyReads, they sign in to your account and read aloud for about a minute. You can also do it together on a call.

Who can hear the recorded voice?

Only your family. It is never shared with anyone else or reused for anything else.

How much does it cost?

Your first TeddyReads e-book is free with no card needed, and recording a voice is free. Later e-books are €5.99 (£5.99 in the UK, $5.99 elsewhere).

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